What does it really take?

I've been applying to designers and agencies, entering contests and trying my darndest to find where the elite meet to greet to get to know people in the fashion industry. What I find interesting is how different everyone handles choosing their models.

One day in one of the modeling groups, someone posted a comment that they were having an open audition right that minute for a modeling contract and to contact them for a tp. So of course I did. Upon arrival, we all stood around making light chatter while our host was rather quiet. We were told to turn off our ao's or any scripts and wait. After a looooong wait for everyone to arrive, we were sorted into groups based on our modeling experience. After a short while, people started to tp out. I was wondering at first until I got a IM that said "I'm sorry, you're not what we're looking for, please leave." So I did.

I was left wondering ... oooookay, so what were you really looking for considering this is a virtual world and I can change my appearance to match anything you want. What are your priorities and under these circumstances, would I really enjoy working with you?

A week later, unrelated to the previous experience, I was chosen for an interview at a modeling agency where they brought me to their facility, sat down with me and talked -- asked questions -- bantered -- strived to get to know me and for me to get to know them. It was a wonderful experience.

I realized at this point that I didn't just want to be hired for modeling gigs, although to gain any recognition I did need to get my face out there ... but I wanted to work with people that I would enjoy. I mean, what's the point if I'm miserable???

It also gave me pause for thought ... I mean really, if you're looking for a model to work with, in a virtual environment, what's most important? The person's personality and ease of working with? Or their current Avie configuration? Any of us can change anything at any time! Insta-Plastic Surgery lol. Gotta Love It!